Relationship Red Flags & Finding Love – Esther Perel

Relationship Red Flags & Finding Love – Esther Perel

Unraveling the Intricacies of Food, Metabolism, and Health

Have you ever sat down to enjoy your favorite meal and wondered, “What exactly is happening when I eat this?” That juicy, succulent steak or the crunchy freshness of a garden salad does more than appease our taste buds – it initiates a complex process within our bodies. As fascinating as it sounds, it’s more than just a fun dinner party topic. We understand how food, metabolism, and health can change how we view our meals, fitness, and overall wellness.

So let’s take a closer look, shall we?

First, imagine each bite you take as a swarm of vital nutrients preparing you to embark on an incredible journey through your body. Proteins, carbohydrates, fats, vitamins, and minerals all play critical roles. They become the building blocks for tissues, the energy that fuels our actions, and the regulators that keep our internal systems functioning optimally.

Now, visualize your body as a bustling metropolis. The energy from food, particularly carbohydrates, and fats, is like the city’s fuel supply. These macronutrients are broken down into simpler forms (glucose and fatty acids, respectively) that can be used for energy immediately or stored for later use. This is where metabolism comes into play – it’s like the city’s power grid, determining where and when energy is needed and delivering it accordingly.

But it’s not just about energy. Proteins, for example, don’t simply fuel your body. They’re like the city’s construction crew, constantly repairing and rebuilding structures (your body’s cells and tissues). They’re also crucial for creating enzymes and hormones, the body’s essential messengers and facilitators of countless biochemical reactions.

Now, here’s the thing: this metabolic city needs a capable mayor to manage all these complex operations effectively, and that’s where insulin steps into the spotlight. Produced by your pancreas, insulin regulates your body’s glucose levels. When you consume carbohydrates, your body breaks them down into glucose, increasing blood sugar levels. Insulin sweeps into action, helping cells absorb glucose and use it for energy or store it for later.

But imagine if our metaphorical city’s mayor started making poor decisions, resulting in inefficient energy distribution or even total gridlock. This is akin to what happens in conditions like insulin resistance, where cells stop responding to insulin as they should. The glucose, instead of being absorbed by cells, builds up in the blood, leading to high blood sugar levels. Over time, this can escalate to type 2 diabetes, a metabolic disease affecting millions worldwide.

Intriguing, right? But why should you care about this complex interplay of food, metabolism, and insulin?

When our metabolic city runs smoothly, we’re healthier, more energetic, and less prone to diseases like obesity, diabetes, and heart disease. By choosing nutrient-dense foods, staying active, and maintaining a healthy weight, we can optimize our metabolism and insulin sensitivity, ensuring our bodies use food for energy efficiently.

Remember, each meal is more than a sensory experience—it’s an opportunity to nourish your body, fuel your activities, and promote your long-term health. Viewing your food this way can lead to changes that ripple out, affecting your energy levels, mood, and overall well-being.

In the realm of food and health, knowledge truly is power. The more we understand, the better choices we can make and the healthier we can be. Our bodies are remarkable in their complexity and adaptability; the dance between food, metabolism, and health is a testament to that.

So, the next time you sit down to enjoy a meal, remember: You’re not just eating. You’re engaging in a fascinating process that fuels, builds, and shapes you from the inside out. And that, my friends, is truly extraordinary.

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Summary of Transcript:
In this episode of Impact Theory, the guest, Esther Perel, talks about the things that kill relationships, such as complacency, a breakdown in communication, mistrust, contempt, violence, loss of affection, major money issues, imbalances in the relationship, and significant fights. She emphasizes that complacency is the biggest killer because people stop paying attention to their partner and become focused on their tasks rather than the person they are in the relationship with. In couples therapy, she reconfigures the lens and encourages both parties to discuss their actions to improve or deteriorate the relationship. Couples can have three types of dances: confrontation, flight, or total distance.

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Summary of Description:
Tom Bilyeu hosts Psychotherapist and New York Times Bestselling Author Esther Perel in his Impact Theory podcast episode. The pair explore how to keep relationships healthy and thrive, discussing complacency, fighting, roles, expectations, and the importance of tools and perspectives. Perel reveals what can kill relationships, how words and culture play a role, and how to understand and value different perspectives. She also shares critical tools that can be used to get the most out of any relationship.

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Can you say with absolute certainty that you are bringing your best self to all the critical relationships in your life? Are you afraid you and your partner are slowly becoming increasingly disconnected and unsure how to identify the fundamental problems that could be killing the relationship? Whether at home or Work, we need to be mindful of what makes our relationships thrive and what threatens them. On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by Psychotherapist, New York Times Bestselling Author, and host of the emotionally raw and tell-all podcasts’ How’s Work?’ and ‘Where Should We Begin?’ Esther Perel discusses such matters and more as they explore the pitfalls you need to be on the lookout for that might be killing your relationships, connections, or marriage. They discuss the downfalls you need to be on the lookout for that pose a threat to your relationships, what complacency looks like, why so many couples get it wrong when trying to solve their differences, the power of words and the meaning behind them, how culture comes into play in your relationship, how to understand other’s perspectives and the tools you need to have a healthy and thriving relationship with anyone in your life.

Order Esther’s book, ‘Mating in Captivity’: amazon.com/dp/0060753641/?tag=wwwestherpere-20

Order Esther’s book, ‘The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity: amazon.com/State-Affairs-Rethinking-Infidelity/dp/0062322583/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1501045724&sr=8-1&keywords=state+of+affairs

Listen to Esther’s Podcast, ‘Where Should We Begin?’: whereshouldwebegin.estherperel.com

Listen to Esther’s Podcast, ‘How’s Work?’: howswork.estherperel.com

SHOW NOTES:

Downfalls | Esther reveals the things that kill relationships. [0:17]
Complacency | Esther reveals the step-by-step process of how complacency creeps in. [2:36]
Blind | Esther reveals why many people in a relationship fail to see their mistakes. [6:14]
Combativeness | Esther reveals the many dynamics of how couples blame each other. [7:33]
Words | Esther reveals the power of your words and how you frame your problems. [10:03]
Culture | Esther reveals how culture comes into play with relationships. [12:56]
Contextualize Yourself | Esther reveals how we can value things differently. [13:58]
Meaning | Esther discusses the importance of the meaning behind what you say. [17:47]
Business | Esther reveals why so many business relationships fail. [19:54]
Perspectives | Esther discusses how you can begin to see others’ perspectives. [21:47]
Tea | Tom shares a story where he and his wife, Lisa, argued over a cup of tea. [26:06]
Fighting | Esther reveals how we fight over a lack of respect and recognition. [28:18]
Roles | Esther discusses roles, expectations, and flexibility in a relationship. [30:27]
Tools | Esther reveals the essential tools you can use to get the most out of your relationship. [31:28]
Connect | Esther shares how you can engage with and continue learning from her. [33:28]

QUOTES:

“So, you want to ensure you don’t assume. “I know what you’re saying.” Ask, and remain curious at all times. “What does that mean for you, and who told you that?” [13:55]

“The very thing people often come in fighting over is what was once originally very attractive to each other.” [24:13]

“…people fight over three things primarily: power and control, trust and closeness, respect and integrity.” [25:35]

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