Summary of Be All In: Unlock Your Full Power:
Many of us only commit halfway to the things we do and tend to look for the exit door when things get hard or overwhelming. Being fully committed, or all in, is hard and scary but it creates deeper trust, allows us to achieve greater results, transforms us, and strengthens our relationships with ourselves and others. To practice being all in, we need to notice where we’re only half committed, recognize our fears and give ourselves love when they show up, and continue to love ourselves and the other person even when things get tough. Seeking support is highly recommended.
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The Power of Being All In: How to Transform Your Life
By Leo Babauta
Do you ever find yourself only halfway committed to anything you do? Do you hesitate before fully dedicating yourself to a project or relationship? This tendency to hold back is all too common, and it can have a corrosive effect on everything we take on.
But what if we could learn to be all in, fully devoted to whatever we do? In this article, we’ll explore what it means to be all in, why we avoid it, and the incredible power it can create in our lives.
What It’s Like to Be All In
Have you ever experienced being all in? Maybe for your kids, your marriage, or a best friend? Imagine having that kind of commitment to everything you do. You work on a creative project and have no doubt that you’re going to complete it, no matter the obstacles. Your heart is fully in it, doubts might come up, but you’re still working with the difficulties. This is full devotion.
Why We Avoid Being All In
We often avoid being all in, fully devoted, because it’s hard and scary. We don’t trust ourselves or the other person, and we don’t think we can work out the hard problems. We’d rather run than put our full heart and power on the table, but this only limits our potential.
The Power Created by Being All In
What if we pledged ourselves to work things out the best we can instead of running? Deeper commitment creates deeper trust and allows us to achieve the greatest results we’re capable of. We can transform those things we think we can’t do, be, or have, creating a deeper relationship with ourselves, with more trust.
How to Practice Being All In
Being all in is a deep practice. Build your commitment by noticing the areas where you’re only halfway committed, and reflect on how this affects your life and relationships. Recognize the fears that stop you from being all in, and be with them as a sensation in the body.
When you feel a fear arise, breathe deeply, and be with it. Try to catch yourself before acting in a way that isn’t aligned with your commitment. Finally, love yourself and the other person, allowing for space and the possibility of growth and transformation.
In conclusion, being all in can transform your life. If you’re ready to embrace the power of commitment, practice deepening. You might struggle, but a small group coaching program like Fearless Mastery can provide support and guidance as you commit to being all in. Let’s transform our lives together.
