Summary of Sharing your story (why we all need to) by Tiny Leaps, Big Changes:
Focusing exclusively on the outcome of our decisions ignores the value that comes from the decision itself and the process that follows. Making a real decision causes a shift in the way we view ourselves, what’s possible, and our sense of self, even before action is taken. Taking action causes growth through experimentation, learning, and experience. The outcome doesn’t matter as much as the decision and action. Shifting the way we view success to place more emphasis on decision making and action taking will lead to winning, regardless of the outcome.
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Why the Outcome of Your Actions Matters Far Less Than You Think
In a world focused on outcomes, the value of the journey is often overlooked. We put so much emphasis on what we achieve, that we forget the process of getting there is just as important. The truth is that the outcome matters far less than you think.
Presenting the Problem: Why We Focus on Outcomes
When we want to improve an aspect of our lives, we tend to get caught up in the outcome. Did we achieve our goal? Did we succeed or fail? This approach makes sense, as tracking our progress gives us an idea of where we’re headed. However, focusing solely on the outcome ignores the value of the journey itself.
Diving Deeper: The Power of Making a Decision
Making a real, committed decision to pursue something has a profound impact on our identity. We may not yet identify as a runner, successful business person, or financially savvy individual, but the act of making a decision to work towards those things changes us. We start to see ourselves as capable of achieving those goals, even before we take any action.
The Power of Taking Action
Once we start taking action towards our goals, another shift occurs. We start to understand the required steps, see what’s possible, and stumble our way forward in the darkness. Each step we take shapes us into a better, more capable version of ourselves. The journey itself transforms us, regardless of whether we succeed or fail.
The Solution: Emphasizing the Journey
If we shift our focus from the outcome to the journey, we start to realize how much we can achieve. Making a decision and taking action are the true measures of success, regardless of whether we succeed or fail in the end. Emphasizing the journey reminds us of the value of growth, the joy of discovery, and the power of transformation.
In conclusion, the outcome of our actions matters far less than we think. By shifting our focus to the journey, we realize the true value of the process and the incredible transformations that come with making a decision and taking action. Don’t forget to celebrate your progress along the way, and remember that the journey itself is the greatest reward.
